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		<title>By: utpalvaishnav (utpalvaishnav)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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:) RT @PhilGerb: Reading: RT @utpalvaishnav: UV.Blog: Seven Step Approach To Deal With an Insulting Email From Boss [link to post]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://chatcatcher.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Posted using Chat Catcher&lt;/a&gt; </description>
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		<title>By: Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok here is my attempt at your suggestion....

1) Most difficult when the boss&#039;s lenses view a reality not visible by you or me. 
2) Out of ideas here since no visible successes are ever acknowledge
3) Data does speak for itself but alternate reality in which she lives lacks similar data which you and I plainly see
4) Get her listening ... your kidding right?  She only hears what she wants to hear.
5) Moving target
6) Yes contemplating this but fear it backfiring on me.
7) Ignoring has worked in past may work now but difficulty dealing with insults is hard to ignore.

Conclusion: Need to line up a new gig</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok here is my attempt at your suggestion&#8230;.</p>
<p>1) Most difficult when the boss&#8217;s lenses view a reality not visible by you or me.<br />
2) Out of ideas here since no visible successes are ever acknowledge<br />
3) Data does speak for itself but alternate reality in which she lives lacks similar data which you and I plainly see<br />
4) Get her listening &#8230; your kidding right?  She only hears what she wants to hear.<br />
5) Moving target<br />
6) Yes contemplating this but fear it backfiring on me.<br />
7) Ignoring has worked in past may work now but difficulty dealing with insults is hard to ignore.</p>
<p>Conclusion: Need to line up a new gig</p>
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		<title>By: philgerb (Phil Gerbyshak)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
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Reading: RT @utpalvaishnav: UV.Blog: Seven Step Approach To Deal With an Insulting Email From Boss [link to post]</p>
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good one : RT @utpalvaishnav Seven Step Approach To Deal With an Insulting Email From Boss | Utpal Writes [link to post] #career</p>
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		<title>By: utpalvaishnav (utpalvaishnav)</title>
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